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All babies have their own timetable, but you can watch for certain developments in your 3-month-old. Celebrate with your baby as he reaches or nears these milestones.
Cognitive
- Still nearsighted but better able to see objects at a distance
- Sees detailed patterns and begins to better discern colors
- Notices what you’re looking at and may try to follow your gaze (shared attention)
- Recognizes you from across the room
- May cry or fuss if bored
- Has improved memory; better able to make a connection between repeated behaviors and the reactions they elicit
Motor
- Holds head steady for longer periods of time
- Better able to keep head aligned with body when in a sitting position
- On stomach, rests on arms and hands to look around
- Grasps a rattle; may shake or even bring it to his mouth
- Brings hands and fingers together; looks at and plays with them
- Attempts to bring hands to mouth
- Begins to use mouth to explore objects
- Reaches for a toy and tries to bat it with legs
- Straightens legs and kicks
- Makes smoother, more coordinated movements
- May roll over from front to side
- Bears weight on legs when held upright
Communication
- Colic-related crying begins to subside
- Turns head toward sounds
- May try to imitate sounds
- Prefers the sound of human voices, especially mother’s
- Communicates needs (hunger, sleepiness) in his own consistent way
- Squeals, growls, and may even giggle
Social
- Distinguishes familiar people from strangers
- Smiles socially and in response to your smile
- Smiles to attract attention
- Imitates some of your expressions and movements
- Enjoys playing with others